Hero - High Functioning Sociopath spectrum

What makes you valuable? How would you change your life to be a more valuable person?
Whenever I think about this question I usually end up with answers like: helping others, solving poverty and hunger, curing a disease, be appreciative of others help, etc. But there is something seriously wrong with this point of view. All these things are dependent on others. None of them describe my intrinsic value independent of others. What does this mean? Does the human not have any value intrinsically? If no, so what is the point of helping others; anyways if human has no intrinsic value, you are helping a worthless entity, therefore doing a worthless thing.
Therefore, one of the following must be the case:
1) Human has no value at all.
2) Some persons are valuable and the worthless people must seek value in contributing to them.
3) There is something valuable to each human being which is defined solely by the person him/her/themselves and not relative to others.

I am leaning towards the third. And I suppose the valueable thing in "helping others" comes from not the "others" part, but the "helping" part. So "helping" yourself is valuable too. But what is that thing? The thing that makes me valuable solely because of me?

art of problem solving

You notice a problem. What would you target? The "problem" or "noticing the problem" or it depends?

problem

1) Yes, the sun was shining hotter than one could enjoy a sunny day; yes, the crows cawing was deafening; yes, the river was unsatisfactorily cold; but we were enjoying the once-in-a-year camp of us. The right shoulder angel of my brother was maliciously attracting his attention to the mark on the car. "Let me clean the stain off the car." he yelled scrubbing the so-called stain. "Oops it seems a scratch to me rather than a stain" he murmured with a chuckle. You could not think of any better way to make my dad leap to his feet. He was carrying on with his life without noticing it but now he is aware of it.

 

2) How can giving a carres to a silky, affection-radiating body put an end to all the struggle you have gone through your busiest day, especially before your hand touches the so far unnoticed lump? Feel a lump and then you both notice there is something going very wrong and this feeling is capable of ruining even your birthday let alone the busiest one. It should not be a tumor I beg.

 

3) Connect phrases to the relevant paragraph: a) distraction  b) cure